update

After I wrote all that below Mike called to tell me my aunt sent me a package. I asked him to open it up and see what was inside. He said it was a ST Jude's necklace for me to wear. She also sent a little one for Emily. She said she was getting them for everyone to wear to support Jude. Even though I am not Catholic (Mike is) St Jude is very inspirational. Anyway, it made my day and made me very teary. I am going to get home to see them and give her a call.