Why is it that I have not planned the way I normally do, for Jude's party? Normally I find inexpensive ways to host a phenomenal party, well what I think is phenomenal anyway. I would have a plethora of activities, pinatas, and more. So far I have great invitations for him, lot's of Elmo's to put around, and matching plates. I wondered if my lack of party planning is because there are very few activities Jude can participate in. I am not sure he will eat his cake, he cannot hold a cup, and I am afraid all the noise may scare him. I decided this wasn't acceptable, and I needed to do more. So I was determined after watching the show to step up my game, and make this a lasting memory for our family. Elmo is Jude's favorite toy because he can focus on the red, and therefore Elmo has been chosen as theme. I plan on adding more activities to the party, including incorporating the parachute Jude loves at Gymboree (I found a great one at wal mart for $10!!). I will put out more games for kids to play, and just see what else I can come up with.
I am picking up a donation of beanie babies for Emily's Smile boxes today. Therefore, I need to run. I am also saying a few prayers for my hubby that will be on a very hot roof today working on a chimney.
3 comments:
Jenn,
Don't be disheartened! I felt the same way at Faith's firs bday. Didn't even agree to a party until about 2 weeks before, after much begging from hubby. We usually try to incorporate things that will touch people that mean something to Faith. Like last bday, we did a Dora cake but had her signing I love you w/ her hand. Then we put up ASL charts on walls and gave stickers to everyone w/ the sign for I Love You and then taught everyone there how to do it and other basic signs. Maybe you could teach everyone some things that Jude enjoys. We also stand up every year and tell everyone about Faith's yr and all that she has overcome to get there. Then we ask a blessing on her next year and for our time with her. It kind of puts an impression on people when they see parents "cry" in public! I am sure you will pull something together and it will be great!
That explains why you said you had a trunk full of Beanie Babies in your trunk when you got back from lunch...LOL! I didn't quite understand that but figured it might just be better not to ask. hahahaha
You know, I made a big deal out of Charlie's first birthday and I ended up regretting it. Raising a special needs kid is a lot of work and stress and I just added to the load. Candace's ideas sound wonderful, though, and maybe I'll make next year more of a deal. Frankly, though, I preferred the small party.
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